Comments on: Treating Undefined Moods With Psychotherapy http://unitedfinancialbenefits.com/articles/2010/01/treating-undefined-moods-with-psychotherapy/ Helping you find Solultions you need! Sat, 11 Feb 2012 16:59:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: mengleyhttp://unitedfinancialbenefits.com/articles/2010/01/treating-undefined-moods-with-psychotherapy/comment-page-1/#comment-11269 mengley Mon, 10 May 2010 17:11:00 +0000 http://unitedfinancialbenefits.com/articles/2010/01/treating-undefined-moods-with-psychotherapy/#comment-11269 Right now I'm living in NYC, but I grew up about an hour north of here. In the city there is less privacy- there are crowds everywhere, it's kind of lonely even though you're surrounded by so many people, people are in their own world- some may consider this rude but that's just the way new yorkers are. However, I would say new yorkers are very well adjusted. They see so much on a daily basis and are exposed to so many different types of people, cultures, arts, and opinions. You really grow up fast here. You just have to be sure that you know how to manage your stress level because it is very fast paced. If someone were to just move here coming from an entirely different environment then yes it would take a while to get used to. Oh, and it's very expensive. But overall, an amazing city by far. Right now I'm living in NYC, but I grew up about an hour north of here. In the city there is less privacy- there are crowds everywhere, it's kind of lonely even though you're surrounded by so many people, people are in their own world- some may consider this rude but that's just the way new yorkers are. However, I would say new yorkers are very well adjusted. They see so much on a daily basis and are exposed to so many different types of people, cultures, arts, and opinions. You really grow up fast here. You just have to be sure that you know how to manage your stress level because it is very fast paced. If someone were to just move here coming from an entirely different environment then yes it would take a while to get used to. Oh, and it's very expensive. But overall, an amazing city by far.

]]> By: gygaayerhttp://unitedfinancialbenefits.com/articles/2010/01/treating-undefined-moods-with-psychotherapy/comment-page-1/#comment-11105 gygaayer Sat, 08 May 2010 07:10:41 +0000 http://unitedfinancialbenefits.com/articles/2010/01/treating-undefined-moods-with-psychotherapy/#comment-11105 I suggest you make an appointment with your schools counselor, they are better equipped to answer your question. If your not in school yet, when you register most schools have you talk to counselor before you start. I suggest you make an appointment with your schools counselor, they are better equipped to answer your question. If your not in school yet, when you register most schools have you talk to counselor before you start.

]]> By: edurahttp://unitedfinancialbenefits.com/articles/2010/01/treating-undefined-moods-with-psychotherapy/comment-page-1/#comment-9608 edura Thu, 15 Apr 2010 00:59:43 +0000 http://unitedfinancialbenefits.com/articles/2010/01/treating-undefined-moods-with-psychotherapy/#comment-9608 I have experienced exactly the same feeling and in one ofour appointments she broached the subject of our therapy ending and I sidestepped the issue and asked her if we could leave that discussion until our final appointment and then I skipped our last appointment. I didn't plan to skip the last session - I just blanked it out and pretended it wasn't on my calendar. Silly and a bit of a lame thing to do but it was an unconscious avoidance. I also picked an argument with her. It was an unconscious thing, to make it easier to part company and I only realized it in retrospect. We eventually said goodbye by email. Very common to become attached to your therapist. They get attached, too. Talk about it. They are used to it. Really: just say "I'll miss you" It happens all the time. Almost everyone who gets on well with a therapist feels as you do and therapists are trained to recognize it. I have experienced exactly the same feeling and in one ofour appointments she broached the subject of our therapy ending and I sidestepped the issue and asked her if we could leave that discussion until our final appointment and then I skipped our last appointment. I didn't plan to skip the last session – I just blanked it out and pretended it wasn't on my calendar. Silly and a bit of a lame thing to do but it was an unconscious avoidance.

I also picked an argument with her. It was an unconscious thing, to make it easier to part company and I only realized it in retrospect.

We eventually said goodbye by email.

Very common to become attached to your therapist. They get attached, too. Talk about it. They are used to it.

Really: just say "I'll miss you" It happens all the time. Almost everyone who gets on well with a therapist feels as you do and therapists are trained to recognize it.

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